Marriage Counseling is an Extreme Sport!
Most couples come to us as a last resort. Either this works or they will split, and their life will fall apart. Hey, no pressure on us, right? Also, couples come in with big resentments. Generally, one partner tells us: “I told them hundreds of times that they needed to change. Now that I have given up, and am just about ready to leave the relationship they I want to change?”
Well, we cannot resist a good challenge. And, yes, now is the time to change. They were not ready before, but they are by the time they get to our door. And yes, we don’t mind climbing mountains either. You will climb with us, because couples counseling is not comfortable or easy. It will get you to take actions you don’t feel like taking, and refrain from doing things you want to do. It’s hard work. But, hopefully it is worth it!
It is nice to grow old together, holding hands into the sunset of life. It is not nice to be all alone for eternity in front of the TV eating frozen food.
Let’s be real. Sometimes, no matter what we try, the relationship is over. If that is the case, it will become very evident very early on in the therapy. We ask couples to commit to three months of hard work with us. After that, if they want to leave the relationship, there will be no regrets because everything has been tried. And, an amicable separation is discussed, which is way cheaper than wasting tens of thousands of dollars in attorney fees.
Listen, there is nothing magic about saving your marriage, no secret to be revealed, and no 10-minute couples therapy cure. Please don’t go buy this or that self-help book, audio or video program hoping that something you read, hear, or see will save your marriage. Notice how reading, hearing, or seeing do not require you to move much. That’s why most marriage programs fail!
We beg to be different. We’re gonna getcha movin’! We are about action and taking important steps to change. We will teach you to have absolute focus and crystal-clear vision on your goals. We will hold you accountable to the change you need to make, and increase responsibility and reliability in the couple.
We tailor-make a strategy to your unique situation, and create no-fail systems for you to stay on track day after day. Your partner does not even need to agree to come; we have seen over and over that when one person changes, the other will follow!
Invest in your relationship. Your family deserves it and your future depends on it.
FIND SOLUTIONS TO:
- Communication Breakdown
- Affairs, Abuse, Addiction
- Mistrust and Jealousy
- Constant Arguing
- Sexual Issues
- Boredom
HELP IS JUST ONE PHONE CALL AWAY.
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